Think You’re in a Relationship with a Narcissist?
Embed from Getty Images Here is why you need to shut it down! — My client Tom had a sad story to tell me when we first met. He had been in a relationship with—he was firm on this point—the love of his...
View ArticleThe Perfect Match: When Love Means Giving an Organ
Joshua Taylor had already given his heart to his boyfriend of 15 years, Ryan Doughty. Then Ryan needed a kidney. It was straight out of an episode of House. Late in the summer of 2010, Ryan Doughty...
View Article6 Healthy Relationship Habits Most People Think Are Toxic
Mark Manson says that couples do occasionally need to be willing to hurt each others feelings. —– About six months ago, I wrote a post titled 6 Toxic Habits that Most People Think Are Normal. It...
View ArticleHow to Take the Trash out of Your Life
Post by Prince Ea. — Prince Ea encourages us to avoid GMOs: the ‘greedy, miserable, obnoxious’ people who dump on us and make us crazy. ___ We could all use a little less chaos and a little more peace...
View ArticleWhat it’s Like to Know You’re Toxic for Each Other But Can’t Let Go
Paul Hudson on meeting the right person at the wrong time. — Sometimes, you meet the right person at the wrong time. It’s not something you can avoid or remedy; it’s not something you can easily let...
View ArticleHow Successful People Handle Toxic People
Nearly everyone has a friend, a colleague, or in some cases a partner whose behavior can be toxic. Dr. Travis Bradberry shares the strategies successful people use to inoculate themselves. ___ Toxic...
View Article3 Toxic Expectations That Kill Relationships
– Jordan Gray says that everyone comes into their relationships with expectations. But some are a lot more harmful than others. —– Every person comes into relationships with some sort of expectations....
View ArticleHow Do You Find Your Masculinity?
View image | gettyimages.com Harris O’Malley on how we define and understand what it means to be a man. ______ One of the things I like to talk about on here is the concept of masculinity. The concept...
View ArticleThese 8 Argument Mistakes Are the Reason Your Relationship Is Toxic
View image | gettyimages.com The key to resolving conflict is to play by the rules. _____ By Bob Alaburda Have you ever gotten into an argument with your significant other and felt like they weren’t...
View ArticleToxic People You Should Avoid at All Costs
Emotional intelligence expert Dr. Travis Bradberry identifies toxic characters you must avoid to protect your psychological health. ___ Toxic people defy logic. Some are blissfully unaware of the...
View ArticleHow to Disconnect from Narcissistic Manipulation
Introducing Ross Rosenberg’s ‘Observe Don’t Absorb’ technique to counter a narcissist’s manipulative tactics. ___ I learned long ago, never to wrestle with a pig. You get dirty, and besides, the pig...
View ArticleNewsflash: Your Ex Might Not Be Toxic or Narcissistic
View image | gettyimages.com Sometimes, the person is good. Just not good for you. ____ It can be validating when a relationship ends and you can look back and see that the person was just toxic or...
View ArticleForgiveness Is a Choice, Not a Mandate
Ross Rosenberg explains that when you’ve been hurt, forgiveness is not mandatory. ___ Forgiveness becomes the client’s decision. It has its own timeline and shouldn’t be forced. It should follow the...
View ArticleWhat Happens When You Rise From the Ashes of a Toxic Relationship
View image | gettyimages.com We all deserve to be in relationships where we’re appreciated. — Moving on isn’t easy. Well, sometimes it is. It’s easy when the person you were seeing didn’t mean much to...
View Article5 Signs You Might Be in a Dysfunctional and Toxic Relationship
In under 4 minutes, you’ll know if your relationship is healthy or toxic. ___ Photo—Ewan Nicholson/YouTube The post 5 Signs You Might Be in a Dysfunctional and Toxic Relationship appeared first on...
View ArticleStress Literally Shrinks Your Brain (How to Reverse the Damage)
Emotional intelligence expert Dr. Travis Bradberry shares a way to protect—and heal—your brain from the ravages of stress. ___ We all know that living under stressful conditions has serious emotional,...
View ArticleCall for Submissions – My Adult Parent is Toxic, This is How I Deal
How do you handle toxicity in adult-parent relationships? Often, as adults, our relationships with our parents is difficult, whether leftover from childhood or because of something that happened later...
View ArticleHow Your Focus Affects Your Relationship
Thomas Fiffer draws a distinction between need-focused and love-focused partners. ___ Recently, I drew a distinction for a friend with a difficult partner. I said, “Your partner is need-focused, and...
View ArticleThe 7 Types of Male Relationships you Should Kick to the Curb
Embed from Getty Images The fact is, these aren’t really friendships in the first place. Respect yourself, and move on. — Almost two years ago, the situation came to a head. It was late spring. The...
View ArticleThink You’re in a Relationship with a Narcissist?
Embed from Getty Images Here is why you need to shut it down! — My client Tom had a sad story to tell me when we first met. He had been in a relationship with—he was firm on this point—the love of his...
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